I left him as he was getting so distressed. I couldn't prop the door open so just had to leave the bird there.
When I went back a few hours later the bird was gone and then I noticed that there was a 2 foot gap at the bottom of the door where he could fly through. I had been so distressed and trying to help him that I didn't realizr he didn't need my help. How often do we do this. We see someone that we percieve has a problem and we jump in to try and fix it and in out efforts to help just cause more distress instead of trusting that the person will be able to find a way through themselves.
So I learn't two important lessons today, firstly when in a flap, stop look around and see if there are any alternatives. Secondly when I think someone needs help, stop & watch & I may realize that they actually have it under control.
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2 comments:
Hello Julia
It is your cousin Christine here, how are you?
Aunty Barb told me about your photography (and cards) so I have been looking up all your information via Google.
Your photography is beautiful, mystical and a credit to your creative talents.
Take care, love Christine A
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Thanks Christine, I wil look you up on G+
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